That's nearly exactly what I said. What I am saying is that I think this one is more open to subjectivity of the on field referee and does not require a VAR intervention.
I'll say again, as referees, of course this is a red cards but I'd say that apart from referees, the percentage of those supporting a red card here is very low.
That tells me somewhere something isn't right, be that education of football, or as rugby have done allowing some mitigating factors or whatever else we can think of to align views.
For anyone else that wants to quote me to tell me this is a red card, for the last time.... I AGREE!