Russell Jones
RefChat Addict
You absolutely should be proud of the role you play in facilitating football matches .. it's a relatively thankless task and fair play to you for stepping up when the vast majority simply carp from the sidelinesThere probably was mate. I care so little about the role outside of the matches themselves that I operate with no too much pressure myself. I am a pretty decent referee in relation to my local standard. I could easily have progressed but it was never my intention to. I am simply a paid volunteer and facilitator of youth football and I am proud of that. Internet chat rooms are very poor judges of people in the real world.
That said, it's worth understanding that the background to the 'harsh' comments on both this and the sin bin thread is that (previously unknowingly) you are most definitely making the lives of your fellow referees materially harder when you pick and choose the things you wish to apply. They will then rock up the following week and simply try to do a good thorough job and may well be perceived as picky / over officious / incorrect because of the players and coaches memories of your game the previous week. If you're ok with this, that's completely your choice ... but at least you'll now be making it with knowledge of the full context.