Anyone know if this is still covered by the laws/rules of rugby - it seems like quite a while since I saw it implemented.
Football could learn a lot from Rugby about how to deal with frustration.
I've only used the 10m penalty advance once. Player 2 metres out from the line infringes and i blow for a penalty. I then hear"ah f**k'in 'ell sir" from the offending player. Quick peep on the whistle and a brisk jog forwards with echos of "shut up Dave you idiot" and then "sorry sir, he'll get your beer after" from his captain . I acknowledge the apology and thank him. I should point out that the score was about 85-0 to the offending player's team at this point.
After the game, i get the promised beer and a further apology and explanation that he'd just come back from injury and was the closest to a try he'd been in 4 years. I almost felt sorry for him!
I've binned 2 players in my few games so far. Both accepted it and didn't complain. Both sides then said "sorry about him, he does it a lot".
If i renew my licence for next season which is cheaper than paying to do a course in a few years and i ref games on a sin bin league, you can be sure that i will be using it a lot. My tolerance level is low.
Here's my tips:
- tell the coach "use your phone/watch to keep track of time, I'm not going to give out time updates as you'll want me to watch the game. I'm only expecting to hear from you about players coming on and off. If someone's in the bin, set your timer and call me if you think I've gone over."
If they can't do that then they can just watch. My daftest moment was the coach saying "tell me when there's 10 minutes to go ref" halfway through the half. I replied "set your watch going, it's in 6 minutes" which raised a chuckle from the other coaches.
Until the players and coaches get on with the game and have realistic expectations of referees it will always be a crapshoot. My money from adult rugby is 45p a mile. No match fee and i can be called to go anywhere in north London and South Essex. However the relationship between referees and players makes it a pleasure not a chore.