Let us know how this goes. Very interested.
Was doing a game yesterday where the facility also had a rugby match on at the same time. The rugby ref had a lovely pink kit! He said to me "why would you referee football? You get a dogs abuse!"
He was not wrong!
Well I had my first match yesterday.
I was told to be there an hour before KO in a shirt and tie, even though the players were wearing jeans or shorts, I didn't feel the odd one out though because it seemed to be expected of the ref.
I got to the clubhouse and after some confusion with people thinking I was a player, I was introduced to the man from the club who was tasked by the home club to look after me, he showed me to my changing room and told me where the teams were getting changed and said if I needed anything else, just let him know.
About 5 minutes later my assessor turned up so I had a short chat with him about the match. He then gave me a microphone to wear so that he could listen to how I communicated with the players (what a great idea, might I add).
About half an hour before KO I spoke to the captains of both teams individually and asked them when they wanted me to do a boot and jewellery check, to which they both immediately stopped their teams warm ups and told them to line up for a boot check, all of whom did without moaning (very different to my football experiences).
After the other formalities we got kicked off. I spent the first 5 minutes chasing the ball like a headless chicken, trying to remember the stuff I had been taught, luckily it all came flooding back
.
I made decisions that were right and ones that were wrong. Never any arguing, only the occasional question from players which either always started or finished with "Sir". Great respect from both teams all the way through the match, little stuff like offering me a water bottle at a break in play was a nice touch.
The final score was 60-0 but the game wasn't as one sided as it sounds. At the end I got handshakes from all of the players and coaches, some players from both teams said I was the best ref they've had all season ( it was my first match so they can't have had many refs
), they included me in all of the festivities like the presentation of a trophy that is award to the winner of this particular fixture.
After the match I went into the bar and was provided with free food and drinks, I had a great debrief with my assessor, again more praise and thank yous from the players.
Then today I got the assessor's report which was great, he said I had a good game and that I had "mastered the art of refereeing in one game" which I highly doubt but was nice to read.
I will definitely be carrying on with it after my first, great experience. It couldn't have gone any better