Ciley Myrus
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This is what I do (and have done for several years). It's also what a large number of higher level referees seem to do here. I have a couple of coins that have a darker side and a lighter side. They go to the team in dark or the team in light (respectively).
I'm not sure how this is premeditated in any way whatsoever and it doesn't take away any of the chance. The coin will still come up randomly and is not (in any way) affected by the choice by a player vs the referee.
I also think that the comment about a personality disorder is utterly inappropriate and unwarranted.
Justify then match control in the form of the coin toss? megalomaniac is the only term I can think of. It reeks of superiority, am all powerful, only I can do the coin toss. Its my entitled opinion that someone who would approach refereeing like this is doing it to compensate for inadequacies in another form of their life.
Am allowed that viewpoint, esp as I have explained why I feel that way.
What is the response going to be when you say, blue you are heads, red you are tails, and blue (away for arguements sake) says.."I always call tails" or words to that effect? Are you really going to say "sorry but today am deciding who is who !!!!! " Lets hope your recognition of foul play is equal to your almighty ego
I know folk and am sure other folk will know folk who referee because of the power aspect, some guys are brutally honest about that, some try to hide it, does not mean they are bad referees, just means, they are using officiating as a means to cover up/replace another aspect of their lives where maybe they are not so powerful.
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