Quick question where do we go to get our praise?
I played a good advantage on half way the player fouled moaned I never gave the free kick his team kept the ball ran through and scored.
It is early days yet, but you will sometimes get praise from teams after the game.
It has happened a few times for me. One of the last games I refereed this season, I had a manager and player come into the dressing room post-match to say how excellent my performance was. I've heard feedback through people in the crowd, who talk amongst themselves and have said whether I'm good or not right there and then.
Mind you, the first game I had this season, the assessor was told by both teams I was the best ref they'd had all year.
Teams will quickly compare you to to everyone else in the league, they'll recognise if you have talent. One of the best pieces of praise you can get is being asked to cover their friendly matches on a regular basis, that says they bank on you to make the right calls and do well in the off-season. (Or you're local and cheap
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Having said that... For every team that thinks I'm one of the best referees out there, there's one that thinks I'm awful. With experience, you'll learn to decide whether their claims have merit; some teams are just downright uppity that you're a referee, full stop. I've had, not abuse, but a word in my ear because I gave a 'soft' penalty for pushing, that made me a terrible referee apparently, but sod them, I was right, end of story. Sometimes, they'll have value in their complaints - these are the things you need to look out for, say, you were inconsistent with your bookings - little things like that, you just need to self-reflect on whether they have merit or not.
Still though, you need to be out on the field because you enjoy it, and because it is the best seat in the house to watch the football. Often it will be a lonely and thankless task, but those days are worthwhile when the chap you sent off comes round to you in the pub and admits he was a bit of an idiot and you were spot on.