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  1. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Un...bloody...believable

    Update Had the meeting and out of all questions, the player himself asks me how can I be so certain it was him? Calmly reminded him, he came onto pitch, made eye contact with me, and said what he said. After that they excused myself and asked to be on standby for second part of it. That was at...
  2. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Un...bloody...believable

    Done the personal hearing quite a few times, so I know the score... Just a little rant on how ridiculous this is
  3. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Un...bloody...believable

    Little rant, Match day was 6/09/2025, player got binned, and while walking away, swore which earned him a straight red. After full time he can back to give me more swearing. Report in for both cards and misconduct. Just had an email saying the player requested a personal hearing which will...
  4. Phonesurgeon

    Strange request

    Thanks guys, I thought so, hypothetically can I refuse to provide a copy to the completion ref sec?
  5. Phonesurgeon

    Strange request

    Hive mind I need help.... Can a league ref secretary (the person that appoint ref to games) request a copy of my report to CFA? Do I have any obligation to provide? This is in relation to the abandoned game last Sunday. I did ask for a copy of the manager complaint/report in exchange, but so...
  6. Phonesurgeon

    I'm considering it...

    @RustyRef They had 13 players, they could have started with 11, easily. For now, I think a break is needed. Since August I've been doing 4 games at weekend and in 2 occasion I've done 5 and 6 games. I'm only 9 games away from promotion to 5, and was hoping to get promoted before end of year...
  7. Phonesurgeon

    I'm considering it...

    2nd game abandoned in 3 weeks Seriously considering giving it up, or at least go on a long break for now. this afternoon ladies game, one team delayed the kick off for about 40 minutes, just because an asinine chairman/manager decided that his team cannot possibly start a game while one of his...
  8. Phonesurgeon

    Junior/Youth My very first....

    My very first C7 which led to an S7, since I started over a decade ago.
  9. Phonesurgeon

    Ladies Rock bottom

    I know he is, I've seen him referee juniors. Qualified 2 seasons ago
  10. Phonesurgeon

    Ladies Rock bottom

    I'm OK, big boy with big broad shoulder... it was just like a WTF moment
  11. Phonesurgeon

    Ladies Rock bottom

    Yup ladies and gentlemen we have hit rock bottom. Ladies games this afternoon, home manager is a fellow referee, and early on in the game, he started making remarks on my style of refereeing. Early warning did not help. Halfway through the first half, yup cautioned him for dissent. I would have...
  12. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age The moaning is putting me off refereeing

    Find your voice and make it loud. No manager or side piece wants to be made a foul publicly. If that fails, you have the tools.
  13. Phonesurgeon

    2nd MDC

    Chuffed to say the least. Had my first MDC a few weeks back, now on Saturday I'll have my second. I'm 6-5 this season... and at my tender ripe old age of 50 I'm seriously considering going for 4 next season. I know, some of you may think I left it a tad late, but hey better late than never
  14. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Not so much an incident

    It's CFA challenge throphy
  15. Phonesurgeon

    Grassroots is dying

    Yup, I can confirm anything from junior to open age "amateur" leagues, they all think they can do anything and everything. 12 years in and now I'm really careful with the games I take. Had to sent a U13 off, after he called me an effing female dog. Same at open age yesterday, 2 players both on...
  16. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Not so much an incident

    Well I've emailed the step5 league to be taken off the game, and although the AR officer was disappointed, he's taken me off the game. He confirmed league take precedent, but I need the middles as I'm on promotion.
  17. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Not so much an incident

    It's not a senior cup, it's open age male. Emailed the ref sec for the step 5 league, asking to be removed from the game, see how it goes.
  18. Phonesurgeon

    Open Age Not so much an incident

    question: 2 different appointments, same day... 1st for step 5 league(I will be ar) 2nd for a County cup(middle) Which one takes priority?
  19. Phonesurgeon

    New earrings at u12 girls

    Girls or ladies All jewellery are coming off, no ifs no buts. The only allowance I will make is for headwear, for Muslims or Sikhs as usually these garment are made of soft material. Legally, under S59 Children's Act we have a duty of care, so jewellery are definitely off, regardless of...
  20. Phonesurgeon

    New earrings at u12 girls

    @southernerinthenorthstill DIscrimination, doesn't trump up Children welfare
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