Right, here we go, unfortunately, because of the time differences I couldn't log in here, go on the internet, listen to the radio or watch TV until I had seen the game!
Also, I should put my hand up and say I am a Utd fan - having grown up 20mins from Old Trafford.
Firstly, before I address the Nani card (and I have a tendency to agree that most times he SHOULD be sent off for being Nani) the referee did miss a number of big decisions, or, chose not to give them. Vidic took a two-fisted punch to the side of the head from the goalkeeper, and having watched it a number of times full-speed and slow, I can't see how the goalkeeper would have got anywhere near the ball - even if Vidic wasn;t there, his fists were a good 6 inches below where the ball would be. Should have been a penalty. HOWEVER, in the 'scrum' that is a packed goal area on a corner, i can forgive the ref, the AR AND the extra Assistant for not spotting it.
Secondly, there was a fairly clear handball, definate DOGSO from Raphael that prevented Real from scoring - again, there were three pairs of eyes on this, and noone saw it. When it happened, I thought it was a penalty from the word go.
Without taking the red card into account, I felt the referee had a pretty poor game overall, but then the card unfortunately binned him in my eyes.
Fortunately, I don't get Andy Townshend over here, but I do get ESPN Press Pass, with such luminaries as Tommy Smyth (widda 'y'), Shaka Hislop, Stevel Nicol and Robbie Mustoe. (Must admit, Mustoe is a great pundit!) and I couldn;t believe the tosh spouted with words like 'Violent Conduct' 'Serious Foul Play' although all were in agreement that it should never have been a red etc etc.
Here's what I saw in the game, the ball is dropping a little behind Nani, he jumps UP and attempts to bring it under control with his foot. As far as Nani is concerned, there is no opponent near him so he is perfectly entitled to raise his foot in order to control the ball. He could not have been aware that Arbeloa was approaching from behind, and at speed - therefore it could not have been Serious Foul Play.
Violent Conduct is definately incorrect as it was a challenge for the ball.
It wasn't an 'Excessive Tackle' as Arbeloa had the momentum, and Nani was pretty stationary other than the vertical movement.
Arbeloa has jumped towards Nani and the ball, and got the ball first, but in doing so, has also jumped into Nani's outstretched leg. Note, NOT into the studs, the boot or the foot, but into the side of the lower part of Nani's leg. He has then dropped like a ton of bricks.
Yes, it looked like Nani took a little 'dig' at him, but having just had his outstretched leg clattered by a big defender, I'm not convinced it was an intentional act other than trying to claim a foul.
Now, had Arbeloa gone for the ball with his head, then maybe it would be viewed differently, but the only possible offence I can think it would be is 'Playing in a dangerous manner'. Which would be an IDFK and a YC at worst.
If the same thing happens to me on Sunday, then I would would probably call an IDFK, have a word with the offender (Nani) and ask him to be a bit more aware.
Unfortunately, it did have a huge impact on the game, although I'm not convinced it truly affected the result - Madrid are easily good enough to score twice against an 11-man United, and I felt they could still have done, red card or not.
However, looking at the two goals Madrid scored, having an extra body on the field, Wellbeck or Rooney especially, I don't think would have allowed Modric the space for the shot, and (I forget who it was) the player that crossed it for Ronaldo to score. This is without taking into account the difference it made to the two sides mentally - Madrid were certainly playing at a much quicker pace, and working much harder after the card.
So, while I can always accept a refereeing error, and get on with it, this one in particular DOES leave a sour taste for me. I think this referee simply wasn't up to standard to take charge of a game that 'the world will stop and watch', and I had pretty much already formed that opinion before the red card, which unfortunately affected the game far more than any referee decision should.
With my Utd fan hat on, I worry about the hangover from this disappointment carrying over into the game against Chelsea in the FA Cup.
Come on you Reds!