I entirely understand your argument - and as I say, I think you're perfectly entitled to show red if you consider it offensive. If you as the referee are the only one offended, and consider it to be offensive language as a result, it's worthy of a red regardless of any other reaction.I get where you are coming from @GraemeS ...
my thoughts ... if he said 'why don't you try jumping n***er (or enter some other form of racist derivative)' then would you send him off, even if nobody actually reacted to it?
if your answer is yes, but not a yes to sending off the queer comment then I think you need to really look at yourself in the mirror ...
if your answer is no, you wouldn't send them off for the racist remark, then I think you need to really look at yourself in the mirror ...
when it comes down to racist/homosexual/discriminative comments then think to yourself 'would this be an offence by law in the street?' if so, then why is it not a red card on the pitch?
for me, it doesn't matter about who reacted and who didn't - it is a red card offence.
Bit harsh but judge me as you see fit.so when I come along the following week, he does the same thing and I do the correct thing and send him off - I get the backlash of 'last weeks ref didn't!'
sometimes you have to also think of your fellow colleagues ... you call the perpetrator ignorant, yet isn't what you're doing ignorant?
As I said in my first post, the thing you definitely don't want to do is just ignore it. By reacting and being stern, you're making it very clear it's unacceptable and I don't think you need to use the red to do that.@WilliamD - I do apologise, I am not saying you are ignorant, I meant you action could be seen as ...
@GraemeS 100% get what you are saying ... I am more looking at the fact also, homophobic behaviour is something that we want to eradicate from football, along with racism ... if you start with the 'nothing' comments, then maybe they don't evolve into anything bigger?
Did you RC him?Free kick awarded to attacker, defender using both hands on attackers shoulders to win a header. Defender shouts "Perhaps you should try jumping instead of crying like a queer."
Red card?
You either need to do nothing or send him off.
Why would i do nothing !! i would give him a public rebuke so all players know it would not be tolerated inclusive of " even though you did not call anybody directly a queer"OK. Which?
It is not (IMO) a direct homophobic comment aimed at another player, so a public rebuke and stern warning would be appropriate. But anymore comments would be dealt with accordingly.
In what was described initially.... i would give him a bollocking, and a warning but no cardSo what is it then?
The directive actually came into effect about 2 years ago (so I believe this is season three) and supports inclusivity for all in football. That means if a comment is made which is discriminatory in relation to one of the nine protected characteristics set out in the Equality Act of 2010, then it must be reported as OFFINABUS. In general,offenders can expect a doubling of the standard punishment subject to a minimum of a 5 game suspension. We had two teams who joined our league this season who had a player on 6 and 7 match suspensions relating to charges of this nature.Did you RC him?
I recall there was a new directive from the FA to report all homophobic abuse, even when you don't know who said it. While you cant RC them, the club was to be report to national FA.
Can anybody recall this instruction, kr was jt just sent to leagues?
You either dismiss or you send in a report stating that it has been brought to your attention but you did not hear/see it. if you do not do either of these things, then it is you who can end up in trouble.Bracing for backlash......
The player in question is ignorant. Odds are (as in general), many of his teammates are ignorant. RC here would probably be so shocking and surprising to them, they would proabably even doubt it correct in law, that it would put match control hugely at risk IMHO. I would call the player over and tell him in 2016 (errr circa 1995 no?) that is a hugely offensive term and that I would be justified by law in giving a straight red. Stern warning - eductation opportunity - save the world one ignorant person at a time.
Only thing that would change my approach is if this was a very senior game with many people in attendance and/or televised in which case it would be a good chance to make and example and again educate.
You either need to do nothing or send him off. Anything in between such as a caution or talking to could lead you into all kinds of problems.
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Whereas if you do nothing at all you have the get out that you didn't hear it
these days it is mandatory as any kind of discrimination is a total no no and you would be thrown to the wolves.