My whistle will be used today and am not red carding for that
The referee in the clip is most likely officiating over the weekend too.
I do not class that minor act of aggression to be a threat to me, my safety or my match control.
If the same player punches me in the face next week, thats violent conduct and will be dealt with on its own merits.
Being a referee means at some point, we will be involved in confrontation, intimidation, taking all different shapes and forms. If your instant and only response is to fire up a red card and thats it dealt with, then I suggest you have too little tolerance to offiate or are lacking in basic managment skills or are too self important to be out there mixing with 22 plus different chatacters
Maybe its upbringing, maybe its the environment we are refereeing in but not in any day of the week can I class that push as violent conduct
Could I grow legs on my report on council park 19 in Sunday league, yes, I could write a report on that to the league which would make it sound like a horrifying encounter
Could i be that ref in that clip and have it played back to a room of delegates and claim to be the victim of an act of violence? I would not huminilate myself to do so.
If we take the definition of violent conduct we can easy arrive at a red card. Violent conduct does not neccssarily have to be violent, per se.
Violent conduct is when a player
uses or attempts to use excessive force or
brutality against an opponent
when not challenging for the ball, or against a
team-mate, team official, match official, spectator or any other person,
regardless of whether contact is made.
You are not wrong in your opinion. After all, all decisions are taken by the match official within the framework of the laws and are in the opinion of the referee.
But those opting for a red card are not wrong eother Any force used on a match official can be deemed excessive. Similarly those going for yellow are also not wrong if in their opinion the force used was not excessive.
I suppose it all comes down to the referee.
For me its a red. Zero tolerance. Maybe I am pre programmed. Maybe at elite level I might think differently. I do struggle with the fact that player on player this is a fairly trifling offence, worthy of a caution at worst. But, out in grassroots this, for me, is an easy red card. Players dont have the same control at GR football and if players see you can be pushed around with little or no retribution then this opens the door for escalation and more serious offences to take place.
I'd be interested in the forums observers views... what the expectations would be at grassroots level??