Padfoot
The Persecuted One
A red card for "there's two teams ref"?!?! Even for you Padders that's a frankly remarkable position to take. Personally, if I heard about a colleague sending off for that statement, I would instead feel that it was HIM letting down his fellow referees, by perpetuating the myth that we are an officious, overly authoritarian bunch with no real empathy for the game ....
Yep...my bad. Wasn't suggesting a red for that particular comment....had quoted the post for the use of "tolerance"............I would agree that that comment could be handled differently.
Ok devils advocate here - so if you dont have to be offended do you/did you dismiss every player that ever swears/swore, whether at you or otherwise? Because by your logic you should.
Similarly, where does it say that if a referee's inpartiality is questioned then this is a dismissable offence... answer is doesnt specifically. It says that referees decisions should be respected and it says a player must not use offinabus language, well whether you think it or like it or not this is open to interpretation and is dependent on tolerance levels of the individual referee.
I am not saying whether this is wrong or right, nor am I saying my actions were correct of how I handled that situation I am just saying that tolerance plays a massive factor, always has, always will.
Consider the fact that certain words/phrases can be intended to be offensive, insulting or abusive, and that whether or not they achieve their desired result, it is the intention behind those words that should be sanctioned, not the result?
Using things like "tolerance", "volume", "temperature/nature of the game" etc etc are just referees making excuses for not applying the LOTG correctly.....weak refereeing.
The player doesn't care if his mates haven't heard it......he only cares that you heard it, as that was his intention.....so why should you care who else heard it? He's called you a cheat........if you have so little self respect that you can feel happy cautioning for that, then at least consider your colleagues who have more respect for themselves, and how your capitulation makes their job a little more difficult when the player does the same thing next week and gets dismissed for it?
I agree, and if that was me I wouldn't even be going for a card and rather would be going back with something like "I know, and the other one is playing better than yours".
For suggesting I had got on, or should put on, a certain coloured shirt then a card of some description is coming out. What colour it is would depend on factors like volume, nature of game, etc. If other players have heard it and leaving him on is likely to cause me problems with match control then he goes.
A typical "I'm protecting my marks at the expense of my self respect" comment. The players called you a cheat........have the testicular fortitude to deal with it properly....if not for your own sake, then for your colleagues.