The phrase 'you're gay' isn't in itself offensive, it's just the way it's used makes it offensive. Conversely, the quenelle gesture is offensive in its own right.'In that situation it wasn't offinabus - it was clear that he wasn't trying to be offensive just tried to put off the kicker'
Possibly putting you on the spot a little, Southend, but how does your comment above re the quenelle equate to your comment re 'you're gay' on another thread
Dan, amongst others, will still find it offensive, regardless of what the f.a. decide, so a red card would be perfectly acceptable. however, if the f.a. decide that Anelka's action wasn't offensive, clubs could challenge the red card, depending on the rules of the competition that they were playing in