One of those games

[JamesL]

I'm the type who wants to let the game flow but more often than not it doesn't do the game any good. I feel now that unless they are through on goal im blowing for the foul as when I dont match control slips and I end up cautioning to regain control when my leniency has been the cause of the loss of control in the first place.

Playing advantage is not leniency. Rather than give up good advantage situations, try making a point to the offender that you saw the foul and have added it to his foul count.