sad young referees feel that way
I'm 35. I played in 2 county cup finals. I've no idea what the Ref wore, I can't remember what they looked like and I never knew their name. I do remember we equalised from a penalty in the first final that was soft to say the least. That's what I remember, the actual performance of the ref during the KMI's.
We all have different views on what's appropriate attire and that's absolutely fine. But what we shouldn't get hung up is the idea that it matters, because it doesn't.