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IMHO, what it is appropriate for a referee to say/suggest on a DB is dependent on level of play. When I'm doing a game with 12 year olds and play was stopped with one team in control, I will engage. But I do it mostly with questions. "They had the ball when we stopped for the injury--are you going to kick it back to them?" If there's uncertainty or initial reluctance: "Are you sure? it's what the pros do to be good sports." I've never found a young player who didn't choose to do the sporting thing.