The very fact that when you register you have to provide your county FA, leagues you officiate on and your refereeing level should give you a very strong indication that this is a forum for referees only.It doesn't say that fans cannot interact here. Anyway, don't know why you don't want to answer my questions, but in any walk of life (not just refereeing) it makes sense to first look at the intentions of the rule breaker before even trying to look if it's necessary to look at the intentions of the one who was at the other end of the incident.
I don't know how a referee can think that just because a player might have been "looking for it" allows the offender to then smash his arm in the other's face (while fully looking at him beforehand and then making a deliberate movement towards the other player's face with his arm) and getting away with a yellow.
That said, if fans want to ask genuine questions, and then debate sensibly, we generally allow that. But what we won't permit is fans of clubs coming on here to moan about decisions that have gone against their team, there are many other suitable forums to go and do that. As someone else has pointed out, your only posts so far have been to complain about decisions going against Chelsea, so it isn't an auspicious start.
As @JamesL has said, most referees are fans of a professional football club. I will openly admit that I've had a moan about decisions that have gone against my team on other forums, but this isn't the place for it.