Sorry to be a little off topic, but didnt want to start a new thread...
But when you dont give advantage (in my example this weekend, its because the challenges were very qualickly escalating, so I put an end to it), I got such an ear bashing.
Even though he was still surrounded by opposition and was on the half way line, he was under the impression he was about to turn and play the ultimate through ball, leading to a goal.
Would you, in that instance, just say something like "Challenges are getting a little silly, lets calm things down", because thats what I *DID* say - which only seem to annoy them more!