Massive overreaction in my opinion. Number one, that ain't no headbutt. People don't just stand there when you headbutt them. I guess the way he did it - touching faces and then pushing away - is the form of using your head physically against someone most favoured by footballers but it's still so new not to have a word to properly describe it. Headpush? Headlunge? Lot of stuff and nonsense if you ask me: you certainly couldn't cause anybody damage doing that. If he'd used the same force with his hand in the same place it wouldn't be talked about as much as it is.
Also, I reckon the player should have been off. Can you really shove the opposition manager like that? Pardew's got no obligation to stop the ball for him.
Still, it was a pretty dumb thing for AP to do. But not a sackable offence. A hundred grand's pretty stiff but, as was mentioned, Newcastle figure hit him big and early and maybe the FA'll back off a bit and people can calm down. Lineker and Savage et al going apoplectic's only gonna get the media frothing. Don't know what Shearer's said but he's usually good for stirring the sh*t.
It's good AP can smile about these things. It's a high pressure environment, full of "heat of the moment" stupidities. We know how it is in our little games so what must it be like at the top? He's calmed down and apologised; what more should he do? Is he supposed to weep and go about in sack cloth? Whatever: I bet the Hull player's not that bothered about it; seems like he likes a bit of a tangle. If I was Meyler I'd be laughing about it too, shake my head and feel a bit daft for the initial shove that started the whole thing anyways. He's hardly gonna bleat cos some guy's forehead touched his face.