Have to admit there was an occasion in the past where I allowed play to continue after stonewall spot kick foul. Attacker gets taken out by defender, ball rolls perfectly for attacker's team mate who had an open goal and stuffed it wide. Gave the goal kick, somewhat surprisingly, not a single complaint about not giving the penalty, even from the player fouled, possibly because they were all too stunned that their team mate had missed a simple chance. Did I do the right thing? We will never know, but fortunately not had another incident similar since...
Posted this in another forum earlier this year, an interesting incident involving "advantage"...
Watching one of my son's u12s games earlier this season, a young referee aged around 16 took charge of the game and the home "assistant" was an FA appointed referee's mentor. During the first half, away team defender hits a hopeful ball forward, home defender and away attacker chase the ball. Home keeper races out his area and palms the ball away, assistant's (mentor) flag goes up immediately, but play continues. A brief game of pinball results in the attacker gaining possession and sticking the ball in the back of the net. The time between the keeper handling and the ball finding the back of the net was only a few seconds, none of the players stopped for the flag and there was definitely no whistle or advantage signalled. The referee goes to award the goal, but notices the assistants flag. Assistant shouts over that he flagged for the keeper's handball and not offside. The referee then pulled play back for an attacking free kick. Away manager and several players question why he didn't allow the advantage and give the goal as he hadn't whistled. His response was "the linesman gave the decision".
Did the referee's age and lack of experience count against him in his decision to pull the play back and not over-rule the original flag? Did he even realise it was his right to over-rule if he felt necessary? Maybe the mentor could also have helped him a bit more by realising the advantage and lowered his flag when the ball went in and advised the referee accordingly?