My brother was refereeing last weekend. Fairly standard U12 game. Did all the checks beforehand, and both managers seemed fine. Yellows vs. Blues. He kick offs, and ten minutes into the game a yellow attack sees them go clean through, one or one with the goalkeeper. Linesman puts his flag up, but he waves play on because he felt the player was clearly onside. They go on to score and during the celebrations the blue manager storms up the line, screaming at him, "What the bloody hell was that, ref?" My brother calmly explained how he felt the player was clearly onside and thus allowed the goal to stand. He then explained he wanted no more outbursts, otherwise manager would be sent to the nearest car park. The manager calmed down and walked away. Play continues, and about five minutes before half time another yellow attack sees a winger cut inside and a LB defender slides in, taking him out completely when ball was past him. Clear penalty kick, so brother whistles and points to the spot. Upon this, blue players immediately complain, and additionally blue manager once again shouts, "What the bloody hell is that, ref? Is this a joke?"
Blue linesman also pipes up aggressively, "He won the ball, ref." He waves away complaints and before setting up the penalty kick he explains to blue manager that it's his final warning and it was a clear penalty. He storms off rather moodily. Player steps up, but two blue players are clearly in the box before yellow has even kicked the ball. He strikes it wide, but one encroaching also shouts 'boo' as he kicks the ball. He immediately whistles for a retake.
Then it really all kicked off. Blue manager and linesman storm up line once again with former shouting, "Are you a complete mug, what is this s***?"
He confronts him straight away and dismisses him to the car park. However, he refuses to leave and says he's coaching his players till the end, and that my brother should just focus on the 'bloody game'. Brother holds stance and demands manager leave vicinity of pitch. Unbelievably, manager stands still, shaking head, and says: "You're a little cheat." He then walks away. My brother now feels he wants to abandon the game; players just watching all this happen, penalty still not taken. Brother walks to home manager and says he can no longer tolerate away team's behaviour and wants to abandon, especially after being called a cheat. Home manager replies he understands, so brother blows up to terminate match. He wrote a misconduct report; still awaiting confirmation/feedback.
Just to get others' opinions, are these circumstances suitable for abandonment?
Blue linesman also pipes up aggressively, "He won the ball, ref." He waves away complaints and before setting up the penalty kick he explains to blue manager that it's his final warning and it was a clear penalty. He storms off rather moodily. Player steps up, but two blue players are clearly in the box before yellow has even kicked the ball. He strikes it wide, but one encroaching also shouts 'boo' as he kicks the ball. He immediately whistles for a retake.
Then it really all kicked off. Blue manager and linesman storm up line once again with former shouting, "Are you a complete mug, what is this s***?"
He confronts him straight away and dismisses him to the car park. However, he refuses to leave and says he's coaching his players till the end, and that my brother should just focus on the 'bloody game'. Brother holds stance and demands manager leave vicinity of pitch. Unbelievably, manager stands still, shaking head, and says: "You're a little cheat." He then walks away. My brother now feels he wants to abandon the game; players just watching all this happen, penalty still not taken. Brother walks to home manager and says he can no longer tolerate away team's behaviour and wants to abandon, especially after being called a cheat. Home manager replies he understands, so brother blows up to terminate match. He wrote a misconduct report; still awaiting confirmation/feedback.
Just to get others' opinions, are these circumstances suitable for abandonment?
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