As well as being a referee, I'm also involved with a kids football club.
After an UNDER 10s match last weekend, one of our CHILD referees (age 15) had to write the following misconduct report about an ADULT coach from the opposition team! The referee left at the end of the match in tears...
"I gave a free kick to on the edge of the box, to which the player rolled into the box. The manager ran onto the pitch and started telling me it was a penalty. I gave the free kick and took the appropriate amount of steps away from the ball for the wall. He shouted at me that I had placed the wall too close. He consistently said this throughout the entirety of the game. Until later on in the game when I placed the wall the exact same distance away to which he said 'why haven't you been doing that all game' even though I had.
I gave the decisions fairly as I saw them to both teams. Whenever I gave the home team a foul he disagreed with, he shouted 'clearly a home ref then'. During the game one of players slid to intercept a ball before it reached the opposition player. He got nowhere near to the player, and the ball rolled out of play. The player then fell over and without permission the manager ran onto the pitch and started telling me in my face that it was a foul. I gave the throw in as my decision to which he said again 'clearly a home ref then.'
I felt like he was trying to intimidate me due to my age by constantly trying to undermine my decisions and I think this was noticed by all the spectators.
He continued to repeat these comments during the match no matter what I did."
I know his report is a bit waffly and he should have been helped to deal with the situations during the match (by the home manager for example), but we will ensure that we support this referee and hope that the opposition coach is correctly dealt with! He should not be near to a football pitch that involves children in my opinion!
After an UNDER 10s match last weekend, one of our CHILD referees (age 15) had to write the following misconduct report about an ADULT coach from the opposition team! The referee left at the end of the match in tears...
"I gave a free kick to on the edge of the box, to which the player rolled into the box. The manager ran onto the pitch and started telling me it was a penalty. I gave the free kick and took the appropriate amount of steps away from the ball for the wall. He shouted at me that I had placed the wall too close. He consistently said this throughout the entirety of the game. Until later on in the game when I placed the wall the exact same distance away to which he said 'why haven't you been doing that all game' even though I had.
I gave the decisions fairly as I saw them to both teams. Whenever I gave the home team a foul he disagreed with, he shouted 'clearly a home ref then'. During the game one of players slid to intercept a ball before it reached the opposition player. He got nowhere near to the player, and the ball rolled out of play. The player then fell over and without permission the manager ran onto the pitch and started telling me in my face that it was a foul. I gave the throw in as my decision to which he said again 'clearly a home ref then.'
I felt like he was trying to intimidate me due to my age by constantly trying to undermine my decisions and I think this was noticed by all the spectators.
He continued to repeat these comments during the match no matter what I did."
I know his report is a bit waffly and he should have been helped to deal with the situations during the match (by the home manager for example), but we will ensure that we support this referee and hope that the opposition coach is correctly dealt with! He should not be near to a football pitch that involves children in my opinion!