My point only referred to the VC element, of course age and skill level may be factors but a punch is a punch, whether he’s 6 or 60 he’s walking!
The OP referred to VC, there is NO latitude there for me, don't care what age they are.
I managed to dismiss an U12 (offinabus, no kidding), despite only doing a handful of games below U14There may be no latitude for VC but there is latitude for how you present it. I have sent an under 10 player off for DOGSO, but rather than just brandishing the RC I gently walked with him over to his manager and explained that I had no option but to send him off however I was not going to upset him further by showing the card. Manager extremely thankful and applause from the parents nearby.