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NewRefBrendan

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AR1 this morning for an Academy fixture between 2 EFL clubs… one-sided…

1st half… 0-2… home manager moans to his assistants that “nobody knows what they are doing!” Then proceeds to shout to his GK… “go down, pretend to be injured”!

First half of a 16s fixture. Dark arts at its finest.. the physio rolled his eyes at me as he trundled back to the bench after “treating” the GK…

Glad I wasn’t the only one to hear it!
 
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Sadly done and accepted at the much higher levels every week.

You aren't a medical expert. Just keep the heck out of it, as you don't want to be on the end of a report for refusal of medical treatment.

Appreciate the rest if anything and record the time.
 
Yeah I agree, and if it wasn’t an under 16 non-competitive academy game with lots of trialists etc I think I would’ve said something to the referee. Club officials don’t want busy MO’s in these games IMO…
 
I think this is a useful time to have a laugh whilst also ‘warning’ them. Maybe something along the lines of ‘probably not best to say that when I’m within ear’s distance of you’ with a smile and a laugh. Could work 🤷‍♂️
 
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I think this is a useful time to have a laugh whilst also ‘warning’ them. Maybe something along the lines of ‘probably not best to say that when I’m writhing ear’s distance of you’ with a smile and a laugh. Could work 🤷‍♂️
For me, I’m absolutel cautioning the coach who yells that. It is balatantlynunsporting, and if he is yelling it loud enough for the GK to hear, it’s loud enough for a lot of people to hear.
 
I think this is a useful time to have a laugh whilst also ‘warning’ them. Maybe something along the lines of ‘probably not best to say that when I’m within ear’s distance of you’ with a smile and a laugh. Could work 🤷‍♂️
Literally word for word what I said to him.

The other bench weren’t bothered in the slightest, and made use of the “time out” .

The game didn’t need a caution for the manager.
 
Are you saying you don't think a referee should adapt his tolerance level depending on the specific circumstances of the match?
Not at all, but when a caution was the most appropriate outcome from an incident, the next words I will hear tend to feature "not that kind of game", "I thought I would manage it" (usually after not issuing a second caution) or "I spoke to him and warned him"
If an incident requires a caution, e. g. a coach shouting to his goalkeeper to cheat, the general tenor of the game should make no difference. After all, if a player in a generally well behaved match punches an opponent, we would expect a dismissal. If a defender in a generally well behaved match comooits a SPA offence, we expect a caution.
 
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