Flipping heck, my first pre season game, first in several weeks, first open age and I qualified 3 months ago!
Part of the problem was that the team who should have been better were getting battered by their reserve side 6-0 and playing terribly. Perhaps I should have been more confident but it was my first open age game! How many of us apply the lotg fully in every game? From my my course I remember the oft repeated quote "you can kill a game in the first five minutes if you apply the lotg fully".
As my mentor wasn't there I can't say whether my application was sufficiently consistent but I feel it was. It just happened that one team was having a shocker and felt the need to try and blame me.
Thankfully I've already committed to reffing in the local kids football which is my passion lies. adult football is not "grassroots", really it should be called "deadwood"!