Hi guys just want to share my opinions and experience since I just completed my first season lucky enough to be an ar on 2 cup final and 1 semi final and did 2 quarter final as middle. First of all I believe communication is a key aspect I remember one of my first games I had to blow for a penalty decision which is arguable not crystal clear position I remember captain said to me I would normally argue a lot since you are cool person and had a great communication with us I’m just gonna accept it so just don’t be the whistle blower use your words too. I was little overweight when I started then I lost my weight and I can feel the peoples looks and how they talked to me changed

