That sounds like one where you had to be there - but of course that is precisely why we are there, to interpret the laws (as they stand) and apply them to what is happening.The other one was a player who was such a gentleman and incredibly good player for age/level (u16). He never complained or shouted for anything in the matches I have ref'ed him, but he did in this recent one. He claimed the ball nicked the defender as the defender challenged for the ball, but the ball continued on to a player who was in an offside position. I called offside but the player wasn't happy because "it touched the defender". I didn't see the touch hence I called it, but even if I had of, I probably would have called offside anyway as the defender was challenging for the ball, so I wouldn't see that a deliberate play of the ball.
Whatever way you call it, someone won't be happy. Story of our lives.
As you say, story of our lives, but also why having qualified officials is an absolute necessity!