Obviously dissent is subjective and everyone will have a different limit but I had a situation in my fixture on saturday which I want to reflect on.
Almost half time, probably around the 42/43 minute mark and a blue player (9) in the penalty area goes to challenge for the ball with the red GK. Red GK makes a howler and ball bounces over his leg, blue 9 swerves the leg and then goes down. No real claims from anyone for a penalty except the aggrieved blue 9. I wave playon but then hear some quite clear frustation "XXXX in XX, he could have taken my arm off" that sort of thing.
The game by this time had gone up the other end of the pitch and fizzles out for a Goal kick to blues at which point I give the blue 9 a stern look and remind the captain there are sin bins in operation. At half time as we walk off the captain speaks to 9 and I also approach to "explain" how i saw it and to mind his language.
Just before starting the 2nd half a spectator says "You're generoud ref, surely thats a sin bin?"
This was the first sign of dissent (turns out it was the only incident too!) but in my view the game had progressed up the field to stop the game at this point and go back to deal with the dissent would have disadvantaged the red team and i didn't feel it worthy enough to do that without risking my match control. FWIW he was good throughout the remainder of the game.
I was praised for my handling of the fixture from both coaches after the game but I guess there are a few questions
I am hoping, fitness allowing, to get back on the promotion scheme next season and I am not sure how an observer would have seen this
1) If i had stopped the game the red team would have probably felt quite aggrieved and my match control shot had I only gone back for a yellow. however, given the language used OFFINABUS wouldn't have been unjust, but the game wasn't really "asking for it"
2) Is there a stepped approach for dissent or us it black and white?
3) this was the 1st instance of dissent in the game, i get that this could have gone the other way ie by not dealing with it i was encouraging in making the next incident harder to deal with but as per point 2, some fouls are worthy of a caution but they soon tot up?
Any comments or thoughts
Almost half time, probably around the 42/43 minute mark and a blue player (9) in the penalty area goes to challenge for the ball with the red GK. Red GK makes a howler and ball bounces over his leg, blue 9 swerves the leg and then goes down. No real claims from anyone for a penalty except the aggrieved blue 9. I wave playon but then hear some quite clear frustation "XXXX in XX, he could have taken my arm off" that sort of thing.
The game by this time had gone up the other end of the pitch and fizzles out for a Goal kick to blues at which point I give the blue 9 a stern look and remind the captain there are sin bins in operation. At half time as we walk off the captain speaks to 9 and I also approach to "explain" how i saw it and to mind his language.
Just before starting the 2nd half a spectator says "You're generoud ref, surely thats a sin bin?"
This was the first sign of dissent (turns out it was the only incident too!) but in my view the game had progressed up the field to stop the game at this point and go back to deal with the dissent would have disadvantaged the red team and i didn't feel it worthy enough to do that without risking my match control. FWIW he was good throughout the remainder of the game.
I was praised for my handling of the fixture from both coaches after the game but I guess there are a few questions
I am hoping, fitness allowing, to get back on the promotion scheme next season and I am not sure how an observer would have seen this
1) If i had stopped the game the red team would have probably felt quite aggrieved and my match control shot had I only gone back for a yellow. however, given the language used OFFINABUS wouldn't have been unjust, but the game wasn't really "asking for it"
2) Is there a stepped approach for dissent or us it black and white?
3) this was the 1st instance of dissent in the game, i get that this could have gone the other way ie by not dealing with it i was encouraging in making the next incident harder to deal with but as per point 2, some fouls are worthy of a caution but they soon tot up?
Any comments or thoughts