higdawgy
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I posted a while back about a confrontation that I don't think I handled too well after a match and I had another one in a Cup Final yesterday.
The coach of the losing side is a generally loud, bad-tempered person. He has been cautioned at least 3 times this season for dissent by referees that I know of.
During the first half I blew for a free-kick against his side, he gave the normal sort of whinge about it, "oh come on, there's two sides out here ref" etc.
I warned him that was enough of that type of complaining because he was loud and aggressive in his tone.
Half way through the second half I have given a free-kick against his side and he screams loudly something like "NO, NO, NO! COME ON!"
I told the players to delay the restart of play and proceed to show him a yellow card, he claimed that he was yelling at his own player, while loudly yelling at me.
Two points to this, either way, he deserved a yellow card. I thought he was yelling at me so it was dissent, but if he was yelling at his own player then for one of a few reasons listed either; acting in a provocative or inflammatory manner, persistent unacceptable behaviour or showing a lack of respect for the game.
After the match, everyone shook hands and after he shook hands with us he started to tell me how I was wrong and he was yelling at his own player. I explained that I thought he was yelling at me, but even if he was yelling at his own player it was still unacceptable behaviour that warranted a caution.
He attempted to continue arguing and I instructed him that I had explained the sanction and asked that he leave the field, he turned and started to walk away. One of his players asked me (nicely) to explain to him why you can get a card for yelling at one of your own players, he was friendly and said thanks when I explained.
The coach then turned around and started with your typical rant while walking back towards me "this is what's wrong with referees, it's always the bloody same, it's a joke" etc. while continuing to walk towards me pointing at me while yelling.
I told him that it was not acceptable to confront a match official in that manner and showed him a red card.
I took some lessons from the incident that I had earlier in the year and feel that I handled the incidents better in the match this weekend than I had earlier in the season.
Happy for any comments that people may have, obviously a lot of it is you had to be there kind of stuff.
Thanks.
The coach of the losing side is a generally loud, bad-tempered person. He has been cautioned at least 3 times this season for dissent by referees that I know of.
During the first half I blew for a free-kick against his side, he gave the normal sort of whinge about it, "oh come on, there's two sides out here ref" etc.
I warned him that was enough of that type of complaining because he was loud and aggressive in his tone.
Half way through the second half I have given a free-kick against his side and he screams loudly something like "NO, NO, NO! COME ON!"
I told the players to delay the restart of play and proceed to show him a yellow card, he claimed that he was yelling at his own player, while loudly yelling at me.
Two points to this, either way, he deserved a yellow card. I thought he was yelling at me so it was dissent, but if he was yelling at his own player then for one of a few reasons listed either; acting in a provocative or inflammatory manner, persistent unacceptable behaviour or showing a lack of respect for the game.
After the match, everyone shook hands and after he shook hands with us he started to tell me how I was wrong and he was yelling at his own player. I explained that I thought he was yelling at me, but even if he was yelling at his own player it was still unacceptable behaviour that warranted a caution.
He attempted to continue arguing and I instructed him that I had explained the sanction and asked that he leave the field, he turned and started to walk away. One of his players asked me (nicely) to explain to him why you can get a card for yelling at one of your own players, he was friendly and said thanks when I explained.
The coach then turned around and started with your typical rant while walking back towards me "this is what's wrong with referees, it's always the bloody same, it's a joke" etc. while continuing to walk towards me pointing at me while yelling.
I told him that it was not acceptable to confront a match official in that manner and showed him a red card.
I took some lessons from the incident that I had earlier in the year and feel that I handled the incidents better in the match this weekend than I had earlier in the season.
Happy for any comments that people may have, obviously a lot of it is you had to be there kind of stuff.
Thanks.