We've agreed on this before. Whilst Club Marks are largely a function of how you generally come across to people, you can't Referee with the marks in mind. Excessively safe refereeing and/or failing to sanction when necessary are examples of how the marks will go south
I don't know what my marks are TBH
But I do know what they are without asking. I know that my Sunday League marks must be very good, whilst my Saturday marks are probably OK but unlikely to be a shining light
And the higher up you go, the more clubs will penalise you for not sanctioning their own players if necessary
That said, there's a club round here that gives the ref 100 whatever happens!