Versions I have heard include:
(With buzzer flags) Buzz me, but don't flag.
(Without buzzer flags) Stand still and look at me.
(Without buzzer flags) Take a step towards the goal then stand still.
So at what could be the key moment in the match, if the AR wants a retake, they are to, stand still and look at the ref? With the game now in progress?
How long do they stand there? Whats the signal from ref to AR that they are not taking the advice?
Does the referee, who has taken offsides, ball over line, etc, from the ar, suddenly find themselves the only one who can make a call when it comes to taking of a pk?
Buzz me but dont flag is common if thats the moment the buzzers pack in, you are leaving the call to technology, when, the buzzers should be used as an extra aid to your established principles, not as replacement for them.
The use of buzzers is to enhance communication, not replace it
i can say hand on heart I have never heard of stand still and look at me, not take a step towards the goal and stand still.
As Ar, if am wanting the retake, the flag will be getting raised.
As referee, if my Ar raises the flag here, am 99% going with a retake.
" ref your lino gave you that?"..... is exact same to when lino gives me a throw, offside, corner, off the ball incident, etc,and, is the epitome of teamwork.
" ref yoir lno gave you that?
" yes, thats exactly why he is there" should kill any shame