what about if a player turns to you and very calmly says "ref, he's cheating"
would you dignify that with a response or is that a send off ?
Not sure what my response would be other than a verbal "keep your opinion to yourself matey". Because he's said it only to me and it's about somebody else, I can't see how it falls within the remit of "OFFINABUS" and therefore a red card.
Because isn't calling somebody a cheat - insulting?