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Perhaps the Respect barrier ...

RefJef

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Perhaps the the Respect Barrier being erected should have been the first clue ...

Whilst I wouldn't say my progress as a referee has been stellar, I would like to think that I have reached a level of compentancy that had the home manager at last week's game trying to sign me up as his ref in residence to do all his home games, and I recently had the luxury of one of my games being videod - other than one possible error I'd already accepted responsibility for, I was delighted to watch back 80 mins of footage in which I ref-ed with a calm authority and got everything else right.

So I rock up today at a pitch I've done before, but both teams were new to me, as was the Respect barrier tape that was being unwound as I arrived - not seen it (or needed it) at any other game. Weather was awful - wind and rain- and the pitch playable but muddy.

We kicked off and it soon became clear that this was not going to be a walk in the park. Plenty of "ref!" from all quarters - players, coaches, the Harridans (mothers) on the sideline. I even gave the home Lino a good b&&llocking as he, once again, questioned my decision. (That put him back in his box & I didn't hear from him again)

Now, I accept it may not have been my best performance in the middle, but I also don't think it was that bad. I think that one side (top of the table, quite physical) were quite "streetwise" and I didn't endear myself to them early doors when I twigged them and penalised them. But the other side don't think I offered them enough protection - in wet and muddy conditions they felt they were getting pushed around when it was just them losing their footing. I think it was one of those days where I was going to take the blame from everyone for everything - including the mud, wind and unremitting, cold, stinging rain.

Just wanted to get it off my chest. Any tips for ref-ing when the field resembles the Somme rather the beautifaul baize of the Crucible?
 
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RESPECT barriers are mandatory in youth leagues........so if you haven't seen them before, then your leagues are poorly run.

Why the CAR question your decision? And why did it need such a response from yourself?
 
The conditions shouldn't matter, what is telling is that you twigged one team's bullying tactics and wouldn't let them get away with it. Teams don't like that. They like to bully the opposition and the referee who turns up for an easy life and some pocket money. Well done for standing up to them. As for players who keep falling over, tell them to change their studs for longer ones ;)
 
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