I did not attack other members. I did not react angrily. I think it’s an interesting situation thst I described- pity others didn’t react well
In an attempt to try to diffuse the situation, here's how I see it.
Using the term
"try reading it sometime(s)" in reference to the LOTG to anyone one on here, let alone an experienced referee, is - in it's most generous interpretation - not a constructive response, and to all intents and purposes is insulting to all of us on this forum who either know it like the back of their hand or regularly refer to it. Equally, assuming that we don't know what it's like refereeing in our 3rd game or at U12s is misplaced - we all refereed our third game once, and many of us have, or still do, referee younger age groups. Any game cann be challenging but we all know that youth football comes with it's unique challenges (eg parents, 'what the game expects' v what the LOTG expect/demands).
It is an interesting situation, and you've come on here to check your decision - that's a fundamentally good sign for a new ref. For those of us largely operating on our own in lower level grassroots leagues without NARs, this forum is our chance to learn, obtain advice and "sense check" our decisions and experiences.
However, when you ask a question and the overwhelming consensus is that you got your decision wrong, that's nothing to take offence at especially when explanations as to why it was wrong have been given.
We all get decisions wrong, and even when we get them right will be told we are wrong. This is our one refuge where when someone is saying you were wrong, it's because they're trying to help and not making an excuse for why their team lost. It's not criticism of you, and shouldn't be taken that way.
It will be a shame for your development if your first experience here puts you off using this forum, but hopefully we can all chalk this up to experience and you can find it the invaluable vehicle for advice and support that we all (or the vasy majority of us at least) do.