I had one of these earlier in the season and I'd like to think that there's not much more to do than you would usually do, it's just that for me, the little things are all a bit more important and carry a bit more signifcance.
You know it's going to be a challenging game so make sure you're switched on and well prepared for the fixture from what you do the day/night before and on day of the game to make sure you're mentally and physically in the right place for such a game.
First impressions are always important, especially in fixtures that could be challenging - When you arrive they will be looking at who the referee is and make an initial interpretation of whether or not they look like they're up to it. Arrive in plenty of time, looking professional, use the time on the ground to say hello and speak to players & club officials and get a proper pitch inspection and warm-up done out on the FOP.
Guide them through the teamsheet process and make sure you've got correct shirt numbers, team/GK colours, techincal area occupants, etc. - no need to go in to specifics of the game or tell them how you're going to referee it, just show them you're in control, know what you're doing, you're confident, comfortable, and a presence on the ground, earn some respect before you've started the game.
Then from the beginning of the game, make sure they know you're in charge. Big loud whistles, use your voice to be proactive and authoritative, lower your tolerance for both fouls and dissent (to the right level of the game), if it's a good standard they'll expect contact, want to be allowed to play some advantage, etc. and it will only wind them up if you keep blowing or are too soft, but again, let them know you're in charge and be seen to be dealing with anything that is foul play (or bordering foul play) and let them earn the right for you to be more lenient and let them get on with it. Also try and keep things as even as you can so no one side feels hard done by or like you're against them.
Get your first decisions correct, work hard and get around the pitch, get yourself in to credible positions - when there is a foul give it a little sprint and get on top of/as close to the incident as you can to give you that extra bit of credibility and be on top of any potential flare ups.
If you get half an invitation for a card or sin-bin early doors, take it and use the captains to help you manage players if that's your style. If things are escalating, drop your tolerance level further, take your time with restarts, substitutions, discipline, etc. and try and take some sting out of the game.
There's no one size fits all answer, it's obviously so dependent on the players - sometimes you go in to these games and they end up being a breeze, other times no matter what you do it will be total chaos. Just manage the game in front of you as best as you can but hopefully these steps can be useful / help make the game a little easier.