My final point to Matty is that I would agree that we must needs explain the law to the child in question before we show the card but that does not, nor should it, mean that we don't show the card thereafter. Learning is done best when doing and so children will learn best what the laws of the game entail when made to 'do' them. By that, obviously, I mean that we force them to live the consequences of their actions so as to teach them best.
I agree, I am simply saying that a straight red card for a first offence is not the best way. Award the FK or Pen, explain why it was a foul and that it should be a sending off under the Law, but give him another chance.
THis is being born out in the responses from my emails I sent out to people who work with children of this age.A couple of people have called me to discuss things as well.
One discussion, using a DOGSO tackle as an example:
An 8 or 9 year old's perception of the Universe around him is very small and centred on self. If an opponent running at goal with the ball appears, the 8 or 9 year old's mind will simply think "Ball! I want it, I 'll get it!" and attempt to tackle, with the rest of the pitch and players, positions etc not in his field of perception ('tunnel vision'), and with no capacity to consider what will happen if he doesn't get the ball, or what he would do if he did get the ball. A 10, 11, 12 year old will have a much wider field of perception, which includes action/consequence and probably think "Attacker, I've got to stop him shooting" and will react differently because the decision-making process is better developed.
An older child, or youth or senior player will be able to comprehend that he his being red-carded for something he did, it would be his fault he mis-timed the tackle. An 8 or 9 year old would look at you and think 'it wasn't my fault, he moved the ball'.
the younger child simply doesn't have the capacity to judge a situation and the consequences of his actions to make a 'good decision'. In fact 'decision' is probably the wrong word to use, as children of this age have not developed a 'decision-making process' yet, and will rely more on instinct and reaction. Punishing not only the child, but also the whole team by sending him off will not help the child see his actions within the 'bigger picture' and he will simplify things to a level he understands - "Ball, near my goal, if I tackle him I'll get punished".
Another response:
The ramifications of the sending off can also be severe on a social level. He gets sent off, his team lose the game. Who are his team mates going to blame for the defeat? The offender probably won't yet have the 'tools' to be able to process the sudden, negative peer reactions.
Coach may step in and diffuse the situation by blaming the ref, becuase the kids can externalise 'fault' very easily, and we drop down the ladder of 'grown-ups who deserve our respect' in the kids' perception of the world.
A softer approach, with an admonition, and perhaps a 'sin bin' or subsitution would be the the
most effective approach - making a child sit and watch his mates, for a time, doing something he really wants to join in with, would be far more effective than simply not allowing him to play again that match. In most junior situations, if a child gets sent off, with no further chance to partake, it wouldn't surprise me if his parents took him straight home, or to McD's to cheer him up. He'll have forgotten all about it by lunchtime.
Like the earlier post above with the foul throws, at this age, many kids simply do not have the physical ability to correctly perform a throw in. And until their physical development and coordination has reached a point where they can, it doesn't help THEM to learn the correct technique by punishing them every time. Punishing the foul throw won't help them develop physically to a point where they are able to correctly perform the task, nature will do that.
(On foul throws, I had a 9 yr old in my u 10s team once, who was very small for his age, and was 'built' out of proportion. We play with a Size4 ball. His arms were not long enough to be able to stand and hold the ball above his head - it was physically impossible for him to bring the ball from behind the head when taking a throw. He would grow and develop a physical frame that would allow it eventually, but should I have banned him from taking throw-ins for the team?)
While i fully agree it is 'not our job' to teach, but to apply the laws, I do think that in the case of young children, there is a collective responsibility among ALL the adults involved in their development, and as a juniors referee, we take on and accept a large chunk of that responsibility. Part of that responsibility is surely to understand the physical, mental and social abilities of the age group we are dealing with and to act accordingly.
In many ways, officiating at Junior level is much harder that seniors, because we perceive the world so very differently from children. If you know a junior coach, ask him if you could come to training one day, then during one of the SSG practise games, just sit in the middle of the pitch so that your eyes are at the same level as the players -
look at the game as an eight year old sees it.
It is very different to the game we see from standing at 5' 10" tall.
"It takes a whole village to raise a child" is the phrase that keeps coming to mind for me. While it may not be 'our job' it is certainly our responsibility to try to nurture and encourage before we resort to punishment.