I had a cup game today and it was generally well mannered.
One incident happened with 20 minutes left.
Red player caught the blue player with a late tackle on the half way line. Borderline careless / reckless. Red player went to apologise to blue player but blue player is angry and starts shouting about how it was dangerous etc and got very close to the red player.
I was there very quickly blowing my whistle and nothing else happened. My thoughts were yellow for both but then i thought - i wonder if i can "manage" this.
The game had been played well and one team was 5-0 up.
I then decided to speak to both and said "don't ruin a good game". Both shook hands and we got on with it. No further incident for the rest of the game - ended 8-0.
But nagging away in my head is both those players probably could have had a yellow but i chose to let them have a "freebie".
Bizarrely both teams were more than happy at full-time and gave me a very high score.
For some reason i'm not happy though as i feel i am obliged to show cards when they are due.
Thoughts?
One incident happened with 20 minutes left.
Red player caught the blue player with a late tackle on the half way line. Borderline careless / reckless. Red player went to apologise to blue player but blue player is angry and starts shouting about how it was dangerous etc and got very close to the red player.
I was there very quickly blowing my whistle and nothing else happened. My thoughts were yellow for both but then i thought - i wonder if i can "manage" this.
The game had been played well and one team was 5-0 up.
I then decided to speak to both and said "don't ruin a good game". Both shook hands and we got on with it. No further incident for the rest of the game - ended 8-0.
But nagging away in my head is both those players probably could have had a yellow but i chose to let them have a "freebie".
Bizarrely both teams were more than happy at full-time and gave me a very high score.
For some reason i'm not happy though as i feel i am obliged to show cards when they are due.
Thoughts?