Hi all,
A familiar situation, where most of my issues came from not punishing ill discipline early enough in an intense match. I'm not sure why I have such a problem with this; maybe I assume I can control everything above board and without cards, but such an approach very often comes back to bite you.
The facts of the game are as follows:
Yellows vs. Reds, U14s
Reds, playing with ten men away from home, take a two goal lead. Some excellent football suggests a gulf in class.
However, all turns on a goal back late in the first half for yellows from an IDFK I gave for a back pass in the box. Not much contact, but enough, and from behind I discern an intention to return it to the keeper.
Early second half--penalty for yellows after contact, but forward stays on his feet. This combination causes hostility towards me from this point forward. Persecution complex starts to infect coach as well.
One comment questioning my integrity first half and a couple more in the second; all behind my back unfortunately and things along the lines of "away refs are always bad because they're paid extra". I manage to calm captain down shortly afterwards, but still no card.
2-2 final score
I let the away coaches know after FT that these insinuations were unacceptable and that the team should be aware for future games, but no specific players identified. Should I report these comments to FA/league even though I didn't mention further action post-match?
A few more sarcastic handshakes as I left the pitch and complaints that I'd blown up when they'd still had a chance from a half-cleared corner. Admittedly a good team, but very hard to like.
I felt I had got all the major decisions right for a good hour (each one on individual merit and according to what I'd seen), but failure to control behaviour scrambled my head and my performance deteriorated in the last ten. This shows again the importance of dealing with dissent.
Anyway, on to next week (at least these matches don't plague me like they used to!).
A familiar situation, where most of my issues came from not punishing ill discipline early enough in an intense match. I'm not sure why I have such a problem with this; maybe I assume I can control everything above board and without cards, but such an approach very often comes back to bite you.
The facts of the game are as follows:
Yellows vs. Reds, U14s
Reds, playing with ten men away from home, take a two goal lead. Some excellent football suggests a gulf in class.
However, all turns on a goal back late in the first half for yellows from an IDFK I gave for a back pass in the box. Not much contact, but enough, and from behind I discern an intention to return it to the keeper.
Early second half--penalty for yellows after contact, but forward stays on his feet. This combination causes hostility towards me from this point forward. Persecution complex starts to infect coach as well.
One comment questioning my integrity first half and a couple more in the second; all behind my back unfortunately and things along the lines of "away refs are always bad because they're paid extra". I manage to calm captain down shortly afterwards, but still no card.
2-2 final score
I let the away coaches know after FT that these insinuations were unacceptable and that the team should be aware for future games, but no specific players identified. Should I report these comments to FA/league even though I didn't mention further action post-match?
A few more sarcastic handshakes as I left the pitch and complaints that I'd blown up when they'd still had a chance from a half-cleared corner. Admittedly a good team, but very hard to like.
I felt I had got all the major decisions right for a good hour (each one on individual merit and according to what I'd seen), but failure to control behaviour scrambled my head and my performance deteriorated in the last ten. This shows again the importance of dealing with dissent.
Anyway, on to next week (at least these matches don't plague me like they used to!).