There is no agenda against you, rather I'm trying (as a moderator as you rightly point out) to keep things on topic. We get complaints when people take things down a different angle so I'm not going to apologise for doing what a mod should be doing.
Do I think the VAR application and protocols are perfect? No, not even close, I think there is still a lot of work to do, but the key thing is that referees today can only apply the protocol as it exists today.
@one helpfully posted the protocol about what can be checked when the ball goes out of play, but you then replied and referred to Lundstram's disallowed goal at Spurs, which as you even say yourself was for offside so nothing at all to do with ball out of play, and under the protocol they can go back further for offsides. So you are comparing apples and oranges, and then went onto rant that they are making it up as they go along, but the only person doing that here is you.