I couldn’t agree more One. Unfortunately at real grass roots level they often struggle to get a referee at all, never mind one with enough experience to do games in all divisions.
I found out this morning I have my first hearing in many years coming up and it’s because we don’t have enough experienced refs to clamp down on troublemakers.
I had a game two weeks ago between the top two teams in the league - one of the teams is no problem, but the other is a nightmare.
I penalised dangerous play by one of the team at which the captain came up “to talk“ He kept going even when told to stop because “I’m the captain, I’m allowed to talk to you!” and was sin binned after going too far. As he walked off he turned and yelled some really choice language at me and was sent off. He then threatened me, again using foul language.
The team were told if he didn’t go the game would be abandoned so eventually he went but not before again yelling at me and kicking the match ball away. He got changed and came back to carry on later on.
I sent another one off for the team before sin binning another player, and then another made similar comments while he walked off so he was sin binned as well. The team were down to 7 on the pitch (they tried to sneak a sub on at this point to give them 8 men but I spotted this!)
The team had another couple of cautions for fouls and actually walked off because I was being mean to them! The captain had come back and carried on threatening me, being joined in this by several others. I’ve reported the captain for misconduct as well as the red. The club have been reported for failure to control and causing abandonment. I didn’t see who was making the threatening comments so couldn’t send them as well but their comments were reported.
I abandoned the game when they walked off.
The club accepted the charges but the captain has appealed! Unfortunately he got away with one the end of last season when banned sine die for spitting at a colleague so thinks he might again.
The trouble is that the players get away with this usually so don’t know when to stop when I won’t tolerate it. We don’t have enough experienced refs to enforce law appropriately so the clubs actually told the league they wanted the refs to show more cards because players were getting hurt!
Unfortunately the professional game does us no favours because the players see their heroes getting away with it so think they should as well. In addition newer refs also think they should just ignore it so a few of us are left to pick up the pieces.