4 mins for the Truro v Dorking game & you may find there was more to it than meets the eye (no pun intended) & covered in previous posts including by me.The clubs have a responsibility to make sure they liaise that there is no kit clash.
However, that has nothing to do with us as referees.
This game started and continued for 10 minutes.
If you're stood about to blow the whistle and you don't go "everyone is in red", well... there is NO excuse.
If they're wearing those colours and the referee puts the whistle to their lip and starts the game then that's on them. Last line of defence is yourself.4 mins for the Truro v Dorking game & you may find there was more to it than meets the eye (no pun intended) & covered in previous posts including by me.
I hope you remember what you said if same situations happens to you in a similar situation at the same level of football.If they're wearing those colours and the referee puts the whistle to their lip and starts the game then that's on them. Last line of defence is yourself.
I wouldn’t make this error. This isn’t “the referee is ****, what are they doing blah blah”. They’re at fault, it’s their responsibility to make sure kits don’t clash and their obligation to not start play if they do. I don’t know why you’re so hell bent on defending it.I hope you remember what you said if same situations happens to you in a similar situation at the same level of football.
There is a definite issue so I am not saying I am defending it. What I am saying is that there are many comments about what was wrong about it etc etc etc, but not many have said what they would have done in the same situation, taking into account that the Referee is perhaps likely (not 100% definite) to have not known about the clash until the delivery of team sheets 1 hour before kick off (perhaps earlier upon arrival at the ground, but let’s say no later than 1 hour before kick off) - what exactly would you have done, what options do you think you may have had & why you would have chosen the option you have opted for?I wouldn’t make this error. This isn’t “the referee is ****, what are they doing blah blah”. They’re at fault, it’s their responsibility to make sure kits don’t clash and their obligation to not start play if they do. I don’t know why you’re so hell bent on defending it.
For me it’s really easy. The second you find out the kits are the same colour you tell both teams that you’re not starting the game until they’re wearing different colours from each other.There is a definite issue so I am not saying I am defending it. What I am saying is that there are many comments about what was wrong about it etc etc etc, but not many have said what they would have done in the same situation, taking into account that the Referee is perhaps likely (not 100% definite) to have not known about the clash until the delivery of team sheets 1 hour before kick off (perhaps earlier upon arrival at the ground, but let’s say no later than 1 hour before kick off) - what exactly would you have done, what options do you think you may have had & why you would have chosen the option you have opted for?
I am afraid on this occasion you have it the wrong way around-it’s the best course of action to inform players on a Sunday morning at 10.30 that unless at least one kit is changed then the game will not be played. They will be angry/frustrated, but most perhaps have not had far to travel and can be rearranged perhaps with a double header if it’s a league game and haven’t played each other already. In the National League game they can be threatened with the same words but only if it’s a non enforceable threat, which it has to be, because you cannot be serious to say that you would postpone a game because of a clash of kits having travelled 600 miles round trip - plus their supporters being at the ground and for all of it to happen again with a midweek kick off. The amount of cost/trouble that would cause is almost unthinkable.For me it’s really easy. The second you find out the kits are the same colour you tell both teams that you’re not starting the game until they’re wearing different colours from each other.
And yes that’s a tough decision to make but that’s our job. If I’ve messed up prior to getting to the stadium in any way then I would never double down on that mistake.
The options are to change one or the kits, or don’t play the game.
At that level it’s not just about getting the game played like it would be on a Sunday at 10:30. There are paying fans who deserve better than to watch a game where they can’t tell who their own team is.
You 100% have to postpone the game if there’s a kit clash. I’m not starting the game, ever, period with this exact kit clash.I am afraid on this occasion you have it the wrong way around-it’s the best course of action to inform players on a Sunday morning at 10.30 that unless at least one kit is changed then the game will not be played. They will be angry/frustrated, but most perhaps have not had far to travel and can be rearranged perhaps with a double header if it’s a league game and haven’t played each other already. In the National League game they can be threatened with the same words but only if it’s a non enforceable threat, which it has to be, because you cannot be serious to say that you would postpone a game because of a clash of kits having travelled 600 miles round trip - plus their supporters being at the ground and for all of it to happen again with a midweek kick off. The amount of cost/trouble that would cause is almost unthinkable.
I admire your passion and you have presented your case very well & even though I have not seen you perform, you come across as having some very good qualities that could take you a long way for all the right reasons. However, what you do not yet have is experience and you are sure to find that as you progress up the ladder, things are not so black and white and to a certain degree, nor should they be. As an example, despite the colour clash, do you think the Referee would have played the game if both or even one team objected. The thing here is that there was not a promotion or relegation issue and although there may have been some unease about starting the game as they did, I can assure you that both teams wanted to play the game for reasons already mentioned. So in your black and white world you would not have played the game and despite you saying you would have made the strong decision to postpone, then I am sure that as night turns into day, you would still be dealing with matters pertaining to your decision to this day, be it from the clubs themselves, the league and/or the FA. At the end of the day the game was played with no other main issues.You 100% have to postpone the game if there’s a kit clash. I’m not starting the game, ever, period with this exact kit clash.
You talk about cost, the thought of one of the teams being relegated our not being promoted because of this incident is also unthinkable.
Sunday league you can try and make something work, wear bibs etc. I’ve worn a bib myself when refereeing because one team thought a black kit was acceptable as their only kit on the day.
But if you’re playing semi professional football, with fans and you’re not postponing the game for that kit clash then frankly you shouldn’t be in that position of power to begin with because you’re clearly not strong enough to make big decisions.
I appreciate I haven’t been in this exact situation.I admire your passion and you have presented your case very well & even though I have not seen you perform, you come across as having some very good qualities that could take you a long way for all the right reasons. However, what you do not yet have is experience and you are sure to find that as you progress up the ladder, things are not so black and white and to a certain degree, nor should they be. As an example, despite the colour clash, do you think the Referee would have played the game if both or even one team objected. The thing here is that there was not a promotion or relegation issue and although there may have been some unease about starting the game as they did, I can assure you that both teams wanted to play the game for reasons already mentioned. So in your black and white world you would not have played the game and despite you saying you would have made the strong decision to postpone, then I am sure that as night turns into day, you would still be dealing with matters pertaining to your decision to this day, be it from the clubs themselves, the league and/or the FA. At the end of the day the game was played with no other main issues.
I have actually just watched the full video on YouTube and neither team wanted to play and the ref decided that they had to play anyway.I admire your passion and you have presented your case very well & even though I have not seen you perform, you come across as having some very good qualities that could take you a long way for all the right reasons. However, what you do not yet have is experience and you are sure to find that as you progress up the ladder, things are not so black and white and to a certain degree, nor should they be. As an example, despite the colour clash, do you think the Referee would have played the game if both or even one team objected. The thing here is that there was not a promotion or relegation issue and although there may have been some unease about starting the game as they did, I can assure you that both teams wanted to play the game for reasons already mentioned. So in your black and white world you would not have played the game and despite you saying you would have made the strong decision to postpone, then I am sure that as night turns into day, you would still be dealing with matters pertaining to your decision to this day, be it from the clubs themselves, the league and/or the FA. At the end of the day the game was played with no other main issues.
So let me get this straight - you consider that the Referee was not strong enough in postponing the game because of a kit clash and yet she must have been very strong to play the game if both teams didn’t and that includes some very strong characters, especially from Away - that just doesn’t make any sense at all. In any event - you’ve been told from day one and been doing it for 15 years. You may have been, but that was at the time you were a L7 or perhaps youth football etc. Things change as you move up the ladder.I have actually just watched the full video on YouTube and neither team wanted to play and the ref decided that they had to play anyway.
So let me get this straight - you consider that the Referee was not strong enough in postponing the game because of a kit clash and yet she must have been very strong to play the game if both teams didn’t and that includes some very strong characters, especially from Away. In any event, - you’ve been told from day one and been doing it for 15 years. You may have been, but that was at the time you were a L7 or perhaps youth football etc. Things change as you move up the ladder.I have actually just watched the full video on YouTube and neither team wanted to play and the ref decided that they had to play anyway.
This game should never have kicked off. Simple as thatI am afraid on this occasion you have it the wrong way around-it’s the best course of action to inform players on a Sunday morning at 10.30 that unless at least one kit is changed then the game will not be played. They will be angry/frustrated, but most perhaps have not had far to travel and can be rearranged perhaps with a double header if it’s a league game and haven’t played each other already. In the National League game they can be threatened with the same words but only if it’s a non enforceable threat, which it has to be, because you cannot be serious to say that you would postpone a game because of a clash of kits having travelled 600 miles round trip - plus their supporters being at the ground and for all of it to happen again with a midweek kick off. The amount of cost/trouble that would cause is almost unthinkable.
I agree with your history as to how it went down etc, but we will have to agree to disagree about the eventual outcome.This game should never have kicked off. Simple as that
The blame game is quite complicated. There was genuine misunderstanding and confusion between the Club Secretaries and a very complex explanation as to how the two sides turned up in the same colours, but once they did, the Refereeing Team compounded the controversy and embarrassment by allowing a ball to be kicked. There's a lengthy TikTok clip which shows the discussions with the Referee and it does not reflect well on her unfortuantely
Ultimately, it was one of the Captain's who thought of the solutionI agree with your history as to how it went down etc, but we will have to agree to disagree about the eventual outcome.