Hi. I started refereeing at 13 and am now in my fourth season. I am just beginning to take on centres for adult football and have worked my way up through juniors at various levels. The better I get and the more I understand the more enjoyable it has become. I am not sure there are many shortcuts to success or progression. I am not the world’s greatest referee but I do try to work hard, attending training sessions and theory nights as much as possible and being as consistent and reliable as possible when it comes to appointments. I have learned a lot (almost everything) from other mature and developing referees who have taken the time to mentor me and offer helpful advice. I personally just try to take it a season at a time with one or two season goals. This year I am aiming to complete my two practical assessments for my Level 3 (Australian) Course qualification and be comfortable in the centre for lower level adult games. I am also aiming to referee higher age groups in junior NPL by the end of the season. My advice would just be to take it steady, one season at a time. When I look back over the last few years I realise how much I have learned and how time in the middle with good referee teams has helped me to improve. Of course I still have huge amounts to learn particularly about player management and being truly ready and focussed when those key decision moments happen - as they do in almost every game. Enjoy yourself, don’t put to much pressure on yourself and re-evaluate your goals every so often. That would be my advice for what it is worth.
Good advice mate, and that's coming from a 30 year old 2-year referee at pretty much your level.
I'd probably add to that, rather than take it one season at a time, it might be better to look at it one weekend at a time. Considering you seem to be at the same level as me (Level 4 in Australia, doing the lower-age NPL and lower level adult games), you'd probably realise that any weekend can be completely different and may need a different approach. For example, this season, I'm only into my 3rd weekend this season since having my appendix out, and its gone.
Weekend 1: NPL Youth Division 1 Under13s and 14s Centre (NO ARs)
Weekend 2: NPL1 First Grade and U23s (AR both games)
Weekend 3: Took off since I got some sort of knee injury that cleared up over the week
Weekend 4: State League Division 1 (NPL3, kinda, but not officially) and Reserve grade Centre (NO ARs)
Every weekend needed a different approach due to the change in level, and age. In addition to that, did a double weekend last year that was:
Saturday: NPL Women U13 (as AR) and U17 (in the middle with one AR)
Sunday: Men's Masters Division 3 and Division 1 Centre (NO ARs)
And that was a big learning curve, because having not had anything to do with women's football since I was 17-18, I let a lot go than I probably should have in the U17s game, and by the time I was about 10-15 minutes in I didn't want to appear inconsistent and kind of had to let a lot go. On the upside, they were still very clean and didn't need to handle anything except for a striker who thought anytime anyone got near her was a free kick or a penalty, but what striker doesn't do that